No Judgment, Be Honest, Be Kind

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Are you really hard on yourself even though you can be kind to others?

In my experience, cultivating the divine feminine qualities through sacred ritual practice can change this deep conditioning.

“If we immerse ourselves in a compassionate, accepting culture, these things will be cultivated within us.” Ilana Alix Angelic.

Bliss comes when I have sudden realisations that I’m a sweet, lovely person who has suffered so much. I am shown that negative behaviours, reactions and patterns were simply normal responses to pain and trauma. I stop beating myself up internally, and release the fear that I must be a bad person who should be punished.

Removing this judgment is, for me, the greatest bliss. Finding the allowance to love and like myself is the sweetest release.

I feel that this trend is growing for all of us against a historic patriarchal culture that has truly denigrated the feminine qualities in men, women and non-binaries. I love being immersed in the beginning of this new era of kindness, gentleness and joy!


 

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